Am I being abused?

“I had no idea what was happening to me was abuse, it was so subtle, so clever, slowly creeping up on me”

Is your partner excessively jealous and possessive?

Yes
No

Has your partner made it difficult for you to see your friends and/or family?

Yes
No

Has your partner made it difficult for you to work or study?

Yes
No

Does s/he embarrass you in front of friends and family?

Yes
No

Does s/he constantly criticise you?

Yes
No

Does s/he constantly put you down either in private or publicly?

Yes
No

Does s/he constantly humiliate your and/or belittle you?

Yes
No

Does your partner tell you what to wear, where to go or what to do?

Yes
No

Has your partner ever forced you to do something you really didn’t want to?

Yes
No

Have you every changed your behaviour because you are afraid of what your partner might say or do?

Yes
No

Has your partner ever deliberately destroyed your possessions?

Yes
No

Are you afraid of your partner?

Yes
No

If you have answered yes to all or some of these questions you may be experiencing domestic abuse. You are not alone and it is not your fault, domestic abuse can happen to anyone. Contact us for support and assistance.